One thing that hurts more than unrequited love is having that love but watching it die slowly from your woman’s eyes. People fall out of love and as much as that’s sad, it’s the truth. So, what are the signs that a woman doesn’t love you anymore?
In a relationship, as long as there is an effort to save it by both parties, there’s definitely going to be a fighting chance. But in certain cases where there isn’t much effort, people tend to fall out of love with each other. It’s not uncommon and when you find this slowly happening to you, although you might be devastated, moving on is your best chance to sanity.
It’s easier when you spot these problems early to avoid staying in a loveless relationship longer than necessary and watching her love for you to die at every sunset and sunrise. Here are a few signs your woman doesn’t love you anymore.
1. SHE DOESN’T CARE ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP
When a woman stops putting in effort into a relationship, it means 2 things. She’s tired and she doesn’t love you anymore. They go hand in hand. A woman who really loves you would always put in effort even when tired. She doesn’t care about the relationship anymore. You might notice she seems detached from life and her normal activities. In reality, she’s detached from you.
2. YOU ALWAYS INITIATE THE CONVERSATIONS – SIGNS SHE DOESN’T LOVE YOU ANYMORE
Women love to talk. At least to their man if not anyone else. Initiating a conversation wouldn’t be difficult for a woman who loves you. When you start noticing you’re always the first to call, to text, to want to meet up, you’re alone. She doesn’t love you anymore. She’s moved on and you should too. You might even notice how detached her responses are when you initiate the conversations. Noticed how lifeless they are these days? That’s it right there. The entire communication becomes flawed.
3. SHE DOES WHAT SHE WANTS REGARDLESS OF YOUR FEELINGS – SIGNS SHE DOESN’T LOVE YOU ANYMORE
Relationships are not about you but about who you’re dating as well. If you notice your woman doesn’t care or put your feelings into consideration, she doesn’t love you anymore. She does things without thinking of how they affect you. might do things she knows would hurt you. she doesn’t even care because she doesn’t love you anymore.
4. NO SIGN OF ATTENTION AND AFFECTION
She doesn’t try to get your attention and she doesn’t give you either. That’s a sign she doesn’t love you anymore. Especially if she was a person who always gave you attention. Or even wanted attention and affection in the past. When you notice the lack of these things, you should be concerned. There’s a reason she feels she doesn’t need this anymore. And that reason is that she feels she doesn’t need it.
5. LACK OF PHYSICAL INTIMACY
Well, this is definitely a no brainer. There are no kisses, hugs even sex. Whenever you try to initiate it, she brushes you off. She doesn’t want you touching her. Even when you do, there’s no excitement on her face or body language. That’s when you start reading the room. She doesn’t want you anymore.
6. SHE DOESN’T EVEN TRY
She doesn’t try to make you feel special on your birthday or your anniversary. All the sweet and romantic things she usually did for you just went out of the trash. She can’t even stand being in the same room as you. Or she could be in one without talking to you all day. Her love for you is far gone. Even after trying to make her miss you.
7. SHE DOESN’T COMPLIMENT YOU – SIGNS SHE DOESN’T LOVE YOU ANYMORE
She doesn’t tell you how nice you look today. How handsome you are on a certain day or even every day. Compared to how it was in the past. That’s when you start noticing the other signs, she might not love you anymore.
8. YOU DON’T FEEL SPECIAL ANYMORE – SIGNS SHE DOESN’T LOVE YOU ANYMORE
Every day you feel less special by her actions. She doesn’t care about you anymore and is basically living life like you barely exist. also doesn’t ask how your day went. she doesn’t want to know if there’s anything bothering you. might just brush off anything you tell her. Never wanting to go deeper and just wants to go to sleep. She’s suddenly too busy for your existence.
BONUS – SHE DOESN’T TELL YOU SHE LOVES YOU
Never underestimate the power of words. She doesn’t say it anymore because she doesn’t feel it. Even when she says it, it doesn’t seem like her voice. It doesn’t seem natural. Might seem a little rehearsed.
Most times, we notice these things and let our emotions cloud our judgment. Don’t do that. Instead, talk to her about things you’ve noticed and if she still doesn’t care, that’s your answer. If she doesn’t try to change it, it’s time to move on. No matter how much it hurts, it’s best to give yourself that much respect.
What other signs do you think show she doesn’t love you anymore? Let us know in the comments.